Sending flowers during a time of loss is a meaningful gesture of love, comfort, and remembrance. Whether you're honouring the life of someone who has passed or offering support to grieving friends or family, this guide will help you choose and send sympathy or funeral flowers with care.
1. Understand the Difference: Sympathy vs. Funeral Flowers
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Sympathy Flowers are sent to the home or office of the bereaved to express condolences. These are typically smaller arrangements such as bouquets, vase arrangements, or plants.
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Funeral Flowers are delivered directly to the funeral home, memorial service, or graveside. These are often larger arrangements designed for display, such as standing sprays, wreaths, or casket adornment
2. Choosing the Right Type of Arrangement
For Sympathy (sent to the home):
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Vase Arrangements – Elegant and easy to place in the home.
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Bouquets – A soft and heartfelt gesture.
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Plants – A long-lasting symbol of life and remembrance.
For Funerals (sent to the service or cemetery):
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Standing Sprays & Wreaths – Displayed on easels; a traditional tribute.
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Casket Sprays – Placed on top of the casket by immediate family.
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Urn Surrounds – Designed for cremation services.
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Floral Crosses & Hearts – Spiritual and sentimental shapes.
3. Consider Colour & Flower Meaning
Flowers often carry symbolic meanings, and certain colours are traditionally associated with sentiments of remembrance and peace:
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White – Peace, reverence, innocence
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Blue – Comfort, serenity
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Purple – Respect, dignity
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Pink – Love, remembrance
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Red – Love, courage
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Green – Renewal, peace
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Soft mixed pastels – Gentle and soothing
That said, we believe the most meaningful tribute is one that reflects the spirit of the person being honoured. Whether it’s soft whites or vibrant colours, trust your instincts—there’s no wrong choice when the intention comes from the heart.
4. Add a Personal Message
A simple and sincere message goes a long way. Some suggestions:
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“Thinking of you and your family during this time.”
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“With heartfelt sympathy.”
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“In loving memory of [Name].”
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“Wishing you peace and comfort.”
If you're unsure what to write, we're always here to help craft something meaningful.
5. Timing & Delivery Tips
For Funeral Services: It’s important that flowers arrive before the service begins—typically at least 1–2 hours in advance. We work closely with you and the funeral home to ensure everything is delivered on time and placed thoughtfully.
For Sympathy Flowers: These can be sent to the family’s home or workplace at any time—immediately after the loss, during the service, or even weeks later as a gentle reminder that you’re thinking of them.
If you're unsure of the timing or details, don’t worry—we’re here to guide you every step of the way.
6. Don’t Stress – We’re Here to Help
Choosing flowers during a time of grief can feel overwhelming. Our experienced team is here to guide you with compassion and care. Whether you're sending a simple vase arrangement or coordinating multiple tributes for a service, we’ll make the process seamless and meaningful.
Need help or have questions?
Give us a call at (416) 546-4820 or email us at hello@mayflowers.ca. We're always here to assist with custom designs, same-day delivery, and thoughtful suggestions.
Let your gesture be a symbol of love and support when words aren’t enough.
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